So it has been exactly 22 (great number) since I have poured my thoughts and emotions on the page/screen...whatever. So what has happened since then?
October 12, 2007
My line sisters came in town, because our 11 is leaving the country *tear*, she and her husband are going to be gone for a long LONG time. so we all decided to meet up at the this sports/karaoke bar. Good times. I arrived at 7 something, I was a little on the early side so I just sat alone, and waited around. I called one of my line sisters to see her eta, need less to say they were waiting on some and had not even begun to get dress...i was a little pissed off. My brother Nico (different mom, different dad, at times different time space continuum..lol) called, I was saved!! He was on his way. A few minutes later he walked in. Its funny, in the last few months we haven't spoken that often and lets not even talk about the last time I saw him, but I as usual things fell into place and it was as if we were never apart, I missed my brother from another mother. He was with his girlfriend, she's sweet, I like her. So I hung out with them for a few so I wouldn't look like too much of a loser sitting in a bar by myself. a few HOURS passed and one of the guest arrive so I bid them goodbye and went to greet the late comers. So in all I was waiting for about 2 to 3 hours for everyone to show, i was not at all please, but then again it was something that I have come to expect, things don' t change. Everyone was accounted for and we just hung. I did things that I didn't feel like doing, but I did it and I shut up. The night ended...i was slightly amused by the turn of events, but I had a good time.
The next day we were suppose to go to breakfast, that fell through and no one called. So I called to see what was suppose to be going on. I took my sister to a birthday party, and then I went to dinner with some of my Lses. I wasn't feeling so well, I think I caught the flu or I was experiencing some flu like symptoms. Whatever it was I felt like crap and all i wanted to do was drug myself and go to sleep and that is precisely what I did.
October 15, 2007
I'm still sick *insert sneeze cough runny nose, and headache here* I feel like crap. I came to work, because clearly I need to money, but my boss took one look at me and asked me why I was there. LOL...I was wondering the same thing. Money makes you do some silly things. So I took leave, but instead of being smart and going home to get some rest, I went shopping, with some imaginary money. So this was my mind set, I need to get some clothes for my Trip to DC. I found a few things, not much, but I guess I would have to make do. From there I went home and laid down, but I had a meeting to go to so my rest period was short lived. I got up and continued to my meeting.
Its raining, no STORMING and i'm cold, dang on sickness. My phone rings, the meeting has been cancelled, go figure just my luck. So what do I do instead of going straight home and resting? Thats right ladies and gents, I go to the store and shop again with imaginary money.
Please keep in mind that although mentally prepared for my trip, I have yet to prepare in the physical...lol..yea still hadn't packed and I had a flight at 6:45am, need less to say I didn't sleep that evening.
October 16th-22nd, 2007
Tuesday Oct. 16th
I was suppose to be at work. But I still didn't feel all that great. So I packed. I wasn't done with my hair, so I permed it and added my hair enhancements. I scrambled to finish packing...I was up ALL NIGHT...shame..lol
Wednesday Oct. 17th
My dad and I headed off to the airport. I don't like riding in the car alone anyway with my dad for long periods of time. He goes into father mode and starts asking me questions that I don't feel like answering, and it doesn't help that he has this amazing knack for making me feel like sh** because he feels I am not doing anything with my life....it was the longest trip to the airport ever. But I got there and the fun was about to begin. I checked in, boarded the plane, and was immediately disheartened. My dayum seat belt did not fit...AWESOME...so I tried ever so delicately and discretely hide the fact that it did not fit my midsection or thigh. The stewardess stopped dead in hear tracks...I just knew I was finished. "Umm Ma'am I need you to buckle your seatbelt.." So how exactly do you tell her that it does not fit without immediately being embarrasseds? Oh yea thats right....you don't. So I tell her that it doesn't fit and she proceeds to yell that she will get me a seat belt extension...sigh...Thanks. Mo'Nique was right...skinny b*****es are evil...lol
I landed and Camonia came to pick me up....she had an itinerary for just about every second of everyday that I was going to be in DC...i was just happy to be away from Texas for a little bit.
Lets see what happened during the course of the weekend, I met new people, shed a few inhibitions, drove in the DC/Maryland Area, got lost, clubed, Was on the yard at Howard U. Fraternized with sorors, Went to a stepshow, Partied at LOVE in VIP fashion, fell off a Segway, Took a tour of the capital, and really and truly came to know that true friendship is hard to find. Camonia is like super friend...I don't know if I could ever re-pay her for all that she has done for me in the past few years....although I one day hope too.
Anyway...
Needless to say the entire weekend I had an absolute BLAST...i would write about everything that went on, but carpel tunnel has set in....maybe i'll come back and update, but all you need to know is that DC folks really know how to party!
Wednesday, October 24, 2007
Tuesday, October 2, 2007
A Few Days in the Life of NC
MOOD: Satisfied
Man its been awhile. There has been so much that I have wanted to say, but I haven't. I might very well be too much to type...oh well. Where do I begin? Its been about 6 days since my last post. I guess I have been a little preoccupied, but its odd I don't really remember what I had been doing...lol..go fig.
I have been doing a lot of reading and inner reflection. The book "Black Like Me" , was interesting. Stirred up some emotions that I am not proud of, like hate, well i suppose hate is strong word, but i was definitely NOT pleased with the way African American's were treated, it sickens me. But what sickens me more though is the fact that while it seems that we have come so far, it feels sometimes that we have only set ourselves back that much more. Why do I say this? Because I think in lue of all of the treads that we have made and all of the people that have died so that we as black people had the right to education, the right to sit where we wanted and go where we wanted, we the youth take this for granted. Its disturbing, and I am not without fault, because maybe if I did take into consideration what came before me I would have done a little better on that test or I would have thought carefully before I acted. I am ashamed and now while i try to correct what I have done wrong, sometimes i wonder if it is too late. I sit patiently and pray for redemption of those sins of my past, and look toward the hope of my future.
I am still distant. Why? Because I need to be a better me, and I can't do that when I constantly worrying about other people. I haven't cut anyone off, I have just rearranged my priorities. Its working out a little better, i'm not as angry, uptight, and self righteous (not that i really was before). I am happy, don't get me wrong sometimes I do get sad, but for the most part I try to keep it positive, otherwise if I didn't I am sure I wouldn't be here.
September 26, 2007
Today wasn't really all too exciting. I was trying to make myself busy at work (which often times I fail at), and get things together for my applications. Did I mention that I think I really need to get out of Texas for awhile? Well I do, its the same old mundane ish. Its time for a change.
After work I met up with E at Kona Grill. Ya know she loves happy hour, cheap drinks, cheap food...it doesn't get any better than that...lol (yea i STILL don't drink) We hung for awhile and talked as usual. it was cool. We departed and went our separate ways.
I was at home, I read, and I slept.
September 27, 2007
I woke up with the same dread that seems to overcome my psyche each and every weekday morning. I had to go to work, blah....did I mention I hate my job?
My boy said he was throwing some kind of party, and as usual I said i wasn't going, but then later changed my mind. I mean if you don't support other people then they aren't going to support you right? After work, I went home, hung out for a good while and then started to get ready. This was suppose to be the jump off to the Nigerian Independence Weekend. I was a little excited, hanging with my naija peeps always excites me.
Sigh.....when I arrived, there was no one there. Literally. I could count the number of people on one hand, on occasion both, but still there weren't enough people in their for my liking. I was disappointed. While sitting and waiting for something spectacular to happen, i was texting to amuse myself (really texting because i was by myself and slightly uncomfortable). I felt a tug at my phone and it was a random guy. He asked who I was texting. "friends," I replied. I guess that was an open invitation for conversation because he began telling me about himself. He was in his late 20s to early 30s and he and a few of his buddies were in town for some kind of job training. I was nice I was cordial and politely informed him that maybe he should try downtown, not that i was well acquainted with the nightlife, but I mean if you were new to the area how could you lose? He continued and told me about how he and his "co-workers" made a quarter of a million last year at work, they all had their own property and other business ventures, he then pointed to the chain that adorned his neck. I just looked and wondered why he felt the need to divulge such information, it was more than obvious (pardon me while I put on my superficial hat) that he didn't look like a quarter mill. Maybe it made him feel better, either way i was not impressed, things like that just don't impress me. I told him that that was awesome and that I just hoped that he was investing his money wisely, i mean we need more black men and women investing so that we can not just be rich, but wealthy.
Needless to say I didn't stay much longer, no one was there, my boy saw that i was supporting, and I left it at that. The evening was a BUST.
September 28, 2007
This day started off alright. Same ole get up and go to work. My little sister was off of school because of this flippin county fair, so she came to work with me. After work, yet again I had place my foot in my mouth and told her that we could go to the fair, it was going to be a looooooooooooooog day.
Work came and went and we were on our way home to get ready for the fair. She was excited, I was tired, but i had to suck it up for my little sister.
So the fair was huge. There were so many poorly dressed individuals. Not that their clothes had to be designed, but for heaven's sake could they at least fit properly? I guess this means I am getting old...lol People under-dressed, over accessorized and did I mention there were too many dang on kids running around acting up? My sister and I waited in line to get tickets. Let me break it down for you:
1. we had to pay to get IN to the fair
2. We no correction I had to pay for my sister to ride rides
3. I had to pay for my sister to play games
4. I had to pay for my sister to get a dayum funnel cake
Umm yea so can you say BROKE. We finally go her band to ride the rides and she rode alone (because there was no way on this green earth that i was going to ride with her, i'm a tad be afraid when it comes to heights.) She looked like she was having a good time, I was glad. We waited in line for one ride and a group of kids decided that they wanted to cut. Ummm we had been standing in the line for 10 minutes there was no way in hell i was going to let that slide. So into momma mode I transformed (I had to apologize to my sister for my behavior later). "umm excuse me, are you all in line?" I asked with and attitude knowing full well what the response was going to be. The girl looked back as if she didn't hear me so, I repeated my self a little louder and with a little more attitude that before, "EXCUSE ME, ARE YOU IN LINE?" The girl said yea and I politely informed her that that was the wrong answer. I don't think she liked that much, but I could care less, this was for my sister not anyone else, "I know one thing," i sassed "my sister better get on this ride next or their will be a problem." I left it at that and stepped to the side and continued my phone conversation. Well it came time for my lil sis to get on the ride, and walked over to make sure it happened...the kids looked scared, good. She rode the ride.
We rode a few more rides and then we started to head out she was tired and so was I. She had fun and amazingly so did I, i guess sometimes its good to spend time with your younger sister.
The night was just beginning for me. It was the weekend of Nigerian Independence and I was so excited. I had been waiting for this for weeks. Tonight there was a fashion show (i missed this) and a party (i should have missed this). I rushed to get ready and I thought i was late, clearly i wasn't late enough. No one was there....there may have been 20 or 30 people (and maybe not even that many). Disappointment consumed my facial display, not again I thought.
I saw a few friends, we stood around for a while rocked to the beat of the DJ who was playing for an imaginary crowd. I decided to sit down and begin, you guessed it text-ing. A few minutes later i felt a tug at my hair, well the hair that I bought..lol it was him, the serial polygamist (although not married, lets just say he seemed really friendly with a lot of people) but for some reason was I really drawn to him, this fact disgusted me. We did the ritual hug as a greeting and then he went on about his business and I continued sitting and text-ing. The DJ was still jammin' and i rocked to the beat, I even got up a few times ( I mean I do like to dance.).
I saw my guy acquaintance from the night before, and asked him what was up with the crowd. He just sat down and looked, "I don't know man, I don't know" he responded. I kind of felt bad for him, but not too bad because I paid for this mess. We spoke a little while longer an then he continued to tend to his duties. Another one of the guys that were putting this event on spoke, and again (adding salt to everyone's wounds) what was going on with the turn out. He shrugged his shoulders and danced...I laughed.
I moved a little closer to the dance floor, closer to the three (exaggeration) people that were present. I saw another friend of mine that I would probably date, if he were taller, lol...he's cute, he's funny, oh yea and young, but all around good peeps. I snapped my finger, i did a step and I did it all by myself (did you catch that?..lol). Then again I sat, this ritual was getting tiresome, so I focused my attention on other things or rather other people, yea you guessed it, HIM again. This is my problem, I obsess and it never gets anything accomplished. I just watched how he interacted. He was always looking at that dayum phone. I wondered who he was communicating with, probably his girlfriend. I smiled to myself, the though amused me. He danced, and ran around as if he were the man. Then I saw him approaching, my heart started to flutter (yea I am a loser and did I mention that I think that he has a girlfriend?) Anyhow, he was close, I was uncomfortable. But I was saved. Saved by some chick that weighed a buck ten. I tried not to stare, it was difficult. I was kind of green asking myself what made her so special? Outside of the fact that she was thin, I guess she was cute...lol (i'm a hater) He danced with her a little longer, I kind of felt invisible, I was really where my L proud that night. I decided to avert my eyes and find something else to fixate on. and I did, the empty dance floor. It was slightly amusing and disheartening all at the same time.
I felt a shadow come over my person. It was HIM...he was right in front of me. Man he smelled nice. I think this was the point where I wanted to die, umm yep I think this was that moment. I felt myself blushing, so I tried to play it off. He started dancing on my person, I gave him a look that said "Boy please!" but secretly I didn't want him to go, but I had to fight those feelings after all he did (or so I was telling myself) had a girlfriend. Did I mention that this kind of thing embarrasses me? He stayed there for a minute and I secretly enjoyed it, he then stood up to tell me something, but then was distracted, his arm was around me..I think I was still blushing. But just as quickly as he swooped in he was gone and that was the last that I saw of him that evening.
The party ended early. Good, it was whack anyway. I went home. And I slept and decided I was so over my crush on him....lol
Man its been awhile. There has been so much that I have wanted to say, but I haven't. I might very well be too much to type...oh well. Where do I begin? Its been about 6 days since my last post. I guess I have been a little preoccupied, but its odd I don't really remember what I had been doing...lol..go fig.
I have been doing a lot of reading and inner reflection. The book "Black Like Me" , was interesting. Stirred up some emotions that I am not proud of, like hate, well i suppose hate is strong word, but i was definitely NOT pleased with the way African American's were treated, it sickens me. But what sickens me more though is the fact that while it seems that we have come so far, it feels sometimes that we have only set ourselves back that much more. Why do I say this? Because I think in lue of all of the treads that we have made and all of the people that have died so that we as black people had the right to education, the right to sit where we wanted and go where we wanted, we the youth take this for granted. Its disturbing, and I am not without fault, because maybe if I did take into consideration what came before me I would have done a little better on that test or I would have thought carefully before I acted. I am ashamed and now while i try to correct what I have done wrong, sometimes i wonder if it is too late. I sit patiently and pray for redemption of those sins of my past, and look toward the hope of my future.
I am still distant. Why? Because I need to be a better me, and I can't do that when I constantly worrying about other people. I haven't cut anyone off, I have just rearranged my priorities. Its working out a little better, i'm not as angry, uptight, and self righteous (not that i really was before). I am happy, don't get me wrong sometimes I do get sad, but for the most part I try to keep it positive, otherwise if I didn't I am sure I wouldn't be here.
September 26, 2007
Today wasn't really all too exciting. I was trying to make myself busy at work (which often times I fail at), and get things together for my applications. Did I mention that I think I really need to get out of Texas for awhile? Well I do, its the same old mundane ish. Its time for a change.
After work I met up with E at Kona Grill. Ya know she loves happy hour, cheap drinks, cheap food...it doesn't get any better than that...lol (yea i STILL don't drink) We hung for awhile and talked as usual. it was cool. We departed and went our separate ways.
I was at home, I read, and I slept.
September 27, 2007
I woke up with the same dread that seems to overcome my psyche each and every weekday morning. I had to go to work, blah....did I mention I hate my job?
My boy said he was throwing some kind of party, and as usual I said i wasn't going, but then later changed my mind. I mean if you don't support other people then they aren't going to support you right? After work, I went home, hung out for a good while and then started to get ready. This was suppose to be the jump off to the Nigerian Independence Weekend. I was a little excited, hanging with my naija peeps always excites me.
Sigh.....when I arrived, there was no one there. Literally. I could count the number of people on one hand, on occasion both, but still there weren't enough people in their for my liking. I was disappointed. While sitting and waiting for something spectacular to happen, i was texting to amuse myself (really texting because i was by myself and slightly uncomfortable). I felt a tug at my phone and it was a random guy. He asked who I was texting. "friends," I replied. I guess that was an open invitation for conversation because he began telling me about himself. He was in his late 20s to early 30s and he and a few of his buddies were in town for some kind of job training. I was nice I was cordial and politely informed him that maybe he should try downtown, not that i was well acquainted with the nightlife, but I mean if you were new to the area how could you lose? He continued and told me about how he and his "co-workers" made a quarter of a million last year at work, they all had their own property and other business ventures, he then pointed to the chain that adorned his neck. I just looked and wondered why he felt the need to divulge such information, it was more than obvious (pardon me while I put on my superficial hat) that he didn't look like a quarter mill. Maybe it made him feel better, either way i was not impressed, things like that just don't impress me. I told him that that was awesome and that I just hoped that he was investing his money wisely, i mean we need more black men and women investing so that we can not just be rich, but wealthy.
Needless to say I didn't stay much longer, no one was there, my boy saw that i was supporting, and I left it at that. The evening was a BUST.
September 28, 2007
This day started off alright. Same ole get up and go to work. My little sister was off of school because of this flippin county fair, so she came to work with me. After work, yet again I had place my foot in my mouth and told her that we could go to the fair, it was going to be a looooooooooooooog day.
Work came and went and we were on our way home to get ready for the fair. She was excited, I was tired, but i had to suck it up for my little sister.
So the fair was huge. There were so many poorly dressed individuals. Not that their clothes had to be designed, but for heaven's sake could they at least fit properly? I guess this means I am getting old...lol People under-dressed, over accessorized and did I mention there were too many dang on kids running around acting up? My sister and I waited in line to get tickets. Let me break it down for you:
1. we had to pay to get IN to the fair
2. We no correction I had to pay for my sister to ride rides
3. I had to pay for my sister to play games
4. I had to pay for my sister to get a dayum funnel cake
Umm yea so can you say BROKE. We finally go her band to ride the rides and she rode alone (because there was no way on this green earth that i was going to ride with her, i'm a tad be afraid when it comes to heights.) She looked like she was having a good time, I was glad. We waited in line for one ride and a group of kids decided that they wanted to cut. Ummm we had been standing in the line for 10 minutes there was no way in hell i was going to let that slide. So into momma mode I transformed (I had to apologize to my sister for my behavior later). "umm excuse me, are you all in line?" I asked with and attitude knowing full well what the response was going to be. The girl looked back as if she didn't hear me so, I repeated my self a little louder and with a little more attitude that before, "EXCUSE ME, ARE YOU IN LINE?" The girl said yea and I politely informed her that that was the wrong answer. I don't think she liked that much, but I could care less, this was for my sister not anyone else, "I know one thing," i sassed "my sister better get on this ride next or their will be a problem." I left it at that and stepped to the side and continued my phone conversation. Well it came time for my lil sis to get on the ride, and walked over to make sure it happened...the kids looked scared, good. She rode the ride.
We rode a few more rides and then we started to head out she was tired and so was I. She had fun and amazingly so did I, i guess sometimes its good to spend time with your younger sister.
The night was just beginning for me. It was the weekend of Nigerian Independence and I was so excited. I had been waiting for this for weeks. Tonight there was a fashion show (i missed this) and a party (i should have missed this). I rushed to get ready and I thought i was late, clearly i wasn't late enough. No one was there....there may have been 20 or 30 people (and maybe not even that many). Disappointment consumed my facial display, not again I thought.
I saw a few friends, we stood around for a while rocked to the beat of the DJ who was playing for an imaginary crowd. I decided to sit down and begin, you guessed it text-ing. A few minutes later i felt a tug at my hair, well the hair that I bought..lol it was him, the serial polygamist (although not married, lets just say he seemed really friendly with a lot of people) but for some reason was I really drawn to him, this fact disgusted me. We did the ritual hug as a greeting and then he went on about his business and I continued sitting and text-ing. The DJ was still jammin' and i rocked to the beat, I even got up a few times ( I mean I do like to dance.).
I saw my guy acquaintance from the night before, and asked him what was up with the crowd. He just sat down and looked, "I don't know man, I don't know" he responded. I kind of felt bad for him, but not too bad because I paid for this mess. We spoke a little while longer an then he continued to tend to his duties. Another one of the guys that were putting this event on spoke, and again (adding salt to everyone's wounds) what was going on with the turn out. He shrugged his shoulders and danced...I laughed.
I moved a little closer to the dance floor, closer to the three (exaggeration) people that were present. I saw another friend of mine that I would probably date, if he were taller, lol...he's cute, he's funny, oh yea and young, but all around good peeps. I snapped my finger, i did a step and I did it all by myself (did you catch that?..lol). Then again I sat, this ritual was getting tiresome, so I focused my attention on other things or rather other people, yea you guessed it, HIM again. This is my problem, I obsess and it never gets anything accomplished. I just watched how he interacted. He was always looking at that dayum phone. I wondered who he was communicating with, probably his girlfriend. I smiled to myself, the though amused me. He danced, and ran around as if he were the man. Then I saw him approaching, my heart started to flutter (yea I am a loser and did I mention that I think that he has a girlfriend?) Anyhow, he was close, I was uncomfortable. But I was saved. Saved by some chick that weighed a buck ten. I tried not to stare, it was difficult. I was kind of green asking myself what made her so special? Outside of the fact that she was thin, I guess she was cute...lol (i'm a hater) He danced with her a little longer, I kind of felt invisible, I was really where my L proud that night. I decided to avert my eyes and find something else to fixate on. and I did, the empty dance floor. It was slightly amusing and disheartening all at the same time.
I felt a shadow come over my person. It was HIM...he was right in front of me. Man he smelled nice. I think this was the point where I wanted to die, umm yep I think this was that moment. I felt myself blushing, so I tried to play it off. He started dancing on my person, I gave him a look that said "Boy please!" but secretly I didn't want him to go, but I had to fight those feelings after all he did (or so I was telling myself) had a girlfriend. Did I mention that this kind of thing embarrasses me? He stayed there for a minute and I secretly enjoyed it, he then stood up to tell me something, but then was distracted, his arm was around me..I think I was still blushing. But just as quickly as he swooped in he was gone and that was the last that I saw of him that evening.
The party ended early. Good, it was whack anyway. I went home. And I slept and decided I was so over my crush on him....lol
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